Some of you might have put all this work and effort in and still haven't seen the results you've been hoping for just yet. Some of you may be feeling down and discouraged and wonder is it really worth the trouble? It's natural to feel a little discouraged when you don't automatically succeed. You've worked too much and come too far to give up now.Maybe things haven't turned out as you hoped they would. Who knows, maybe tomorrow you'll meet the person you've been looking for.by Mark Many of you who are frequent readers to this newsletter and the website know of the great tips mentioned.They cover a broad variety of topics and give some good tips on attracting women.DEAR ABBY: My husband and I read the letter you ran on Dec.
This is the biggest mistake people make in this process. If you commit to dinner and dancing and you see that they look nothing like their photos, then you’re not stuck with them for the entire evening. Then if we don’t find anyone or if the people we message don’t message us back, we get discouraged. Set up accounts on multiple sites — wherever you want to cast your net. I stared with three sites, then ended up canceling two and just using one. I made sure I only used it as a tool, and got on when I was only in a good “mood.” But at the end of the day, I prefer to meet people the old-fashioned way, in person. Instead of holding onto a pole, we must cast a net. I think many make the mistake of fishing instead of casting, spending hours and hours in front of the computer searching for our perfect match like old people in front of a slot machine.I want to encourage you all today who are thinking about quitting and throwing in the towel to keep on doing what you've been doing. What would happen if you gave up and started getting negative? I want to encourage all of you who haven't seen your dreams turn out the way you had hoped to change your focus. When I wake up in the morning, I like to think that this could be the day I meet someone great. And even if I didn't find or meet the person I want, I know that I'm one day closer until it comes to pass. Pull yourself out of that discouragement and one day, at the appointed time, you'll find someone great.With each day that passes, you're one day closer to reaching your goal.